Category: Communication

Not being able to practice self care due to hectic lifestyles.

Not being able to practice self care due to hectic lifestyles.

A lot of women have young children, and find it hard with sleepless nights, poorly kids, feeling unwell themselves as mums… and life seems to be a roller coaster ride. When trying to surrender, when the topic of self care comes up, a lot of […]

Spider Story

Spider Story

What am I doing differently now I am implementing Fascinating Womanhood? An example of the old me…. Me: I just saw a massive spider in the bedroom, I want you to get rid of it please. Husband: I thought you liked spiders? I really don’t […]

Save That Special Tone Of Voice… For Him

Save That Special Tone Of Voice… For Him

The other day I phoned a friend to speak to her. Her husband picked up the phone, and we exchanged some polite pleasantries – asking about the kids, work, etc. After that, I asked to speak to my friend, so he gave her a shout… […]

Restoring Lost Dignity

Restoring Lost Dignity

Many women have come to me saying their husbands treat them like dirt… a whole plethora of disgusting actions… name calling, shoving, even.. spitting! Sigh. Dear ladies, take heart. He may be hurting you right now, but surrendering to the fact that you can only […]

Fay Leur’s Wish List

Fay Leur’s Wish List

One of the very first things Fay Leur (the new-to-surrendering-fairy) had learnt in her marriage was that Elf Husband was not a tidy elf. She had surrendered when it came to housework. Her hairier other half just could not pick his elfish socks off the […]

Broken Promises

Broken Promises

So what do you do when your husband goes back on his word – breaks his promise? Say he told you that from now on weekends would be family time – he wouldn’t take on any odd jobs, he wouldn’t spend the whole weekend with […]

Once Upon a Time….

Once Upon a Time….

Once upon a time there was a beautiful fairy called Fay Leur,she lived with Elf Husband in a cute little fairy village full of surrendered happy fairies and their adoring husbands One day, as Fay was washing the dishes in her little fairy kitchen, she started […]

The 4 Stages of Communicating

The 4 Stages of Communicating

How many times have we said something nasty and cutting to the men we love? Well, in order to preserve the intimacy and to have a masculine husband, he really does need to be respected, and what’s more, he needs to feel worthy enough for […]

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