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Geranium Oil – Giving Love

Geranium Oil – Giving Love

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Cherished Wellness is back from having taken a break! Alhamdulillah! This month, on Cherished Seasons, we are cultivating the habit of giving love to others – our loved ones and our spouses, for those of us who are married! An oil that can help us […]

Fill up your love-wells.

Fill up your love-wells.

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Do you have any love wells in your inner garden? These are little water-wells that contain all the love that is within you. Make a conscious effort to create more wells, and to ensure they are filled regularly so that you can give love back to others. Read more.

A Marriage of Two Guardians

A Marriage of Two Guardians

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For Men & Women  Out with the old? Let’s face it:  our lives are not like those of our parents and we need a new template that defines a successful marriage.  My father, may Allah protect him and grant him health (say Ameen, please), had […]

A Balanced Marriage

A Balanced Marriage

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For Men & Women  As April is the month of creating A Balanced Life, in this article let’s look out how we can create a balance between husband and wife and everything else that can often ‘get in the way’ of a loving, respectful, and […]

The Purpose of A Loving Marriage

The Purpose of A Loving Marriage

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For Men & Women  As March is the month of connecting to our purpose, I recently wrote a post Why Do You Do what You Do? and in the following article, I wanted to explore how we connect to our purpose when we are loving, […]

My Top 99 Books

My Top 99 Books

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Somebody recently asked me what had happened to the booklist I had online, which I realised had inadvertently gotten lost – what better an opportunity to compile another one.  Here, my cherished readers, are my 99 best-loved books!  I love all of these books for […]

Set the Stage – Part 1 Her Beautiful Body

Set the Stage – Part 1 Her Beautiful Body

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Submitted by Anonymous Sexy bedroom apparel is what a woman prides herself in – it is her expression of being a Woman, and being blessed with a beautiful, soft, feminine body. She celebrates her beauty by wearing fabrics and designs that enhance and flatter her […]

Setting the Stage: Part 2 – The Bedroom

Setting the Stage: Part 2 – The Bedroom

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Hello my darlings.  I would like to bring to your attention the love room – The room where most of your intimate relations will take place.  How is it – is it welcoming, alluring?  Does it compliment you as a woman? Make your bedroom a […]

Sex on the Wedding Night – Do I have to?

Sex on the Wedding Night – Do I have to?

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In the eastern culture, where premarital relations are not encouraged, and perhaps even forbidden, the ‘wedding night’ often comes with a lot of tension. A lot of women wonder if they ‘have’ to have a physical connection on that particular night, and if consummation is […]

Being Intimate With Young Babies

Being Intimate With Young Babies

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How do you deal with the baby waking up in the cot when being intimate in bed….puts me on edge … Answer by Anonymous: Just because we have kids around, people get stressed out and don’t even bother to make time because they know it […]

A man’s brain needs variety.

A man’s brain needs variety.

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Why men want women to dress like Tarts (but never in public) Why Men Don’t Listen And Women Can’t Read Maps by Alan and Barbara Pease. ‘ A man’s brain needs variety. This is why men love novelty factors like sexy lingerie in a monogamous […]

Let’s talk about sex…

Let’s talk about sex…

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Dear Young Bride, Sex isn’t that important, it takes up less than 1% of your time, pops up in your thoughts occasionally and pops up in conversation rarely. Unless you are unhappy with the quantity or quantity of sex in your marriage, in which case […]

Be vulnerable in the bedroom….

Be vulnerable in the bedroom….

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Submitted by Anonymous You are dressed in a way that enhances your features, your bedroom gives out seductive messages, through its soft lighting and sensuous aromas…. and your man comes to the bedroom with his comic, ready for a quick read and off to bed. […]

What does vulnerability in the bedroom mean to you?

What does vulnerability in the bedroom mean to you?

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Submitted by Anonymous Hmmm… vulnerability in the bedroom…. That would mean allowing him to call the shots… so, if you stroke his neck, and he responds… you allow him to take things to the next level of intimacy… it also means that if he grunts […]

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Sara has helped me in so many ways!

By allowing me to feel more empowered, by showing me how to action boundaries,

by helping me to find my self-esteem,

by explaining how other people may be feeling and how to understand this,

by enabling me to do self-care things which are helpful to me.

Nearly on the verge of divorce

Attending this two-day workshop was a memorable experience.

It helped my marriage at a time when it was nearly on the verge of a divorce.

Alhamdulillah, this is 6 years of a peaceful marriage – been married 18 years now.

I’ve come such a long way since my work with you

I was in such a mess with that relationship. I worked through my worthiness, self-love, finding myself and building my relationship with Allah. You introduced me to a whole new world

Sara empowered me to set boundaries, and stand up for myself.

She reminded me about my intentions and goals, and in general to have a much happier marriage and life.

Universal Principles

Principles that you can apply to any aspect of your life and relationships not just in marriage!

The Four Traits of a Cherished Muslimah

Sara’s words penetrate deep

I began seeing the man I married that very evening.

I came to the session thinking it cant help my marriage that drastically but the effects were instantaneous!

I now have the tools to continue making improvements within my marriage, most importantly changes within myself.

 

 

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