Intimacy

Cherished Wellness is back from having taken a break! Alhamdulillah! This month, on Cherished Seasons, we are cultivating the habit of giving love to others – our loved ones and our spouses, for those of us who are married! An oil that can help us […]

Do you have any love wells in your inner garden? These are little water-wells that contain all the love that is within you. Make a conscious effort to create more wells, and to ensure they are filled regularly so that you can give love back to others. Read more.

For Men & Women  Out with the old? Let’s face it:  our lives are not like those of our parents and we need a new template that defines a successful marriage.  My father, may Allah protect him and grant him health (say Ameen, please), had […]

For Men & Women  As April is the month of creating A Balanced Life, in this article let’s look out how we can create a balance between husband and wife and everything else that can often ‘get in the way’ of a loving, respectful, and […]

For Men & Women  As March is the month of connecting to our purpose, I recently wrote a post Why Do You Do what You Do? and in the following article, I wanted to explore how we connect to our purpose when we are loving, […]

Somebody recently asked me what had happened to the booklist I had online, which I realised had inadvertently gotten lost – what better an opportunity to compile another one.  Here, my cherished readers, are my 99 best-loved books!  I love all of these books for […]

Submitted by Anonymous Sexy bedroom apparel is what a woman prides herself in – it is her expression of being a Woman, and being blessed with a beautiful, soft, feminine body. She celebrates her beauty by wearing fabrics and designs that enhance and flatter her […]

Hello my darlings.  I would like to bring to your attention the love room – The room where most of your intimate relations will take place.  How is it – is it welcoming, alluring?  Does it compliment you as a woman? Make your bedroom a […]

In the eastern culture, where premarital relations are not encouraged, and perhaps even forbidden, the ‘wedding night’ often comes with a lot of tension. A lot of women wonder if they ‘have’ to have a physical connection on that particular night, and if consummation is […]

How do you deal with the baby waking up in the cot when being intimate in bed….puts me on edge … Answer by Anonymous: Just because we have kids around, people get stressed out and don’t even bother to make time because they know it […]

Why men want women to dress like Tarts (but never in public) Why Men Don’t Listen And Women Can’t Read Maps by Alan and Barbara Pease. ‘ A man’s brain needs variety. This is why men love novelty factors like sexy lingerie in a monogamous […]

Dear Young Bride, Sex isn’t that important, it takes up less than 1% of your time, pops up in your thoughts occasionally and pops up in conversation rarely. Unless you are unhappy with the quantity or quantity of sex in your marriage, in which case […]

Submitted by Anonymous You are dressed in a way that enhances your features, your bedroom gives out seductive messages, through its soft lighting and sensuous aromas…. and your man comes to the bedroom with his comic, ready for a quick read and off to bed. […]

Submitted by Anonymous Hmmm… vulnerability in the bedroom…. That would mean allowing him to call the shots… so, if you stroke his neck, and he responds… you allow him to take things to the next level of intimacy… it also means that if he grunts […]