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Lessons from the Lily

Lessons from the Lily
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The Elegant Lily Symbolises Leadership

Look at the lily, she proudly opens her petals and makes a show of her female carpel, with her male stamens clustering around her.  She is a symbol of reproduction and fertility, depicting life and growth.

The lily is the flower of springtime leadership! Her bulb bursts into life in the spring, and whether you have a bouquet of lilies, or she is the only lily in the bunch, it doesn’t diminish her beauty and significance, and her presence is always noticed.

We sent down water from the sky, then caused to grow therein pairs of every noble kind.
Surah Luqman (31:10)

The lily proudly displays her bright orange pollen for bees to take – watch you don’t get any of her pollen on your clothes! Just as each type of lily is unique and has its own colour and fragrance; similarly, a woman balances the different areas in her life worshipfully.  She flourishes while her husband performs his own vital roles in their marriage, enjoying their marriage’s unique beauty and fragrance.

When you want to tap into your inner queen, be like the lily:

Purpose Balance Guardianship
Stand out, do your best and bloom when Allah wants you to.

 

Be in effortless harmony with others, despite being the queen Procreate and nurture in harmony with the masculine

Be the Queen of the Bouquet

  • Lead with strength and beauty
  • Do your best and leave the outcome to Allah
  • Bloom where you are planted! What can you do to make your world a better place?

Balance Your Life Like a Lily – How Balanced is Your Bouquet?

  • Too much leading can make you overbearing, and not enough will lead you to wilt away, causing your life and family damage.
  • Being overly loving will cause you to smother those around you, just like a lily drowning in water! Not loving yourself or your husband/loved ones enough will lead to neglect and detachment
  • Being excessively wise will lead you to become quite manipulative; yet if you don’t use enough wisdom, you will end up causing problems unwittingly.

Embrace Guardianship – Be a Proud Shepherdess of Your Flock

  • Reconnect with your home/rooms, have a spring clean!
  • Be creative with your cooking. See what culinary magic you can create!
  • Connect with your children/the children around you – read them stories, play with them, connect with their innocence
  • Reach out and spend time with the elderly – sit and chat with them, go for a walk with them, connect with the wisdom of their experience.
  • Embrace your creativity! Do you like to paint/sew/DIY?
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Nearly on the verge of divorce

Attending this two-day workshop was a memorable experience.

It helped my marriage at a time when it was nearly on the verge of a divorce.

Alhamdulillah, this is 6 years of a peaceful marriage – been married 18 years now.

I’ve come such a long way since my work with you

I was in such a mess with that relationship. I worked through my worthiness, self-love, finding myself and building my relationship with Allah. You introduced me to a whole new world

Sara empowered me to set boundaries, and stand up for myself.

She reminded me about my intentions and goals, and in general to have a much happier marriage and life.

Universal Principles

Principles that you can apply to any aspect of your life and relationships not just in marriage!

The Four Traits of a Cherished Muslimah

Sara’s words penetrate deep

I began seeing the man I married that very evening.

I came to the session thinking it cant help my marriage that drastically but the effects were instantaneous!

I now have the tools to continue making improvements within my marriage, most importantly changes within myself.

Sara has helped me in so many ways!

By allowing me to feel more empowered, by showing me how to action boundaries,

by helping me to find my self-esteem,

by explaining how other people may be feeling and how to understand this,

by enabling me to do self-care things which are helpful to me.

 

 

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