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Setting boundaries and ruffling feathers

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Sara
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February 18, 2013

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When you decide to make some lemonade with the lemons you have been given, you will undoubtedly ruffle up some feathers.  You may start putting yourself first, taking steps to getting your needs met… and those around you may not like it.  Or you may speak up and admit that you are not happy with the way things are right now… which may be interpreted as complaining/whining.  You may start putting some healthy boundaries down… and you may be called a tyrant.  One powerful affirmation to remember at this point is:  “You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time.”

Those around you WILL get upset with you from time to time, and it is ok.  Breathe….

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